by - Friday, June 16, 2017

Assalamualaikum. Hi everyone. 

Again , despite of everything i am about to share with you what is friends for and what elements that should be count to be my friend or yours. 

Back in 98' , when i was 7 years old. My dad always remind me to find a brilliant friend & come with a good attitude. He always remind me that until i've reached 12 years old . Once i step in boarding school , he remind me that too but not often like he did when i was so little. 

He used to said " if you want to be clever , make friends with clever people." He always checked on me . Who is my friends , where did she came from & etc. Even her family background. I can be so sure that my dad is very particular in everything. Even when i am in the classroom , suddenly he pop ups infront of me just to take a look who sat besides me . 

He was very careful because he don't want his daughter got influence by those whom his dislike (not so brilliant & good in attitude) .He said " friends always influence you . surrounding & people around you will eventually affected you . Choose the right person to be your friend."

As for now , i have to agree that i am apart with all of my friends. Not because i am cocky or what. It was just i am too busy and yes ! All of us still keep in touch through iMsg & whatsapp. My surrounding ? I don't really have a good surrounding except in my house. Where i have my family . Unless i meet my friends. Once in awhile i guess since i am a mother now & a wife ! ahahaha. It's just because people around me are not so educated anymore (except my family and friends)

I do missed my UMS's friends a lot where we always have a table talk and discussed about what is happening right now. Current issues , how to handle it & even talk about history. (missing that moment) . My MGS's friends, they are crazy ! always make me laugh out of nowhere. I missed my kelepet's a lot. I don't really have a lot of close friends. Fathin , i miss her too because she always act like ustazah & reminds me to be in a right path. Can you see that i have this kind of friends. Brilliant , right path & crazy too ! Yet , all of them are well educated. 

What left , i always have my parents whom always reminds me about everything including life after death & husband as a good companion. Sisters as my best friends (best partner ever) & friends (MGS's , UMS's & Fathin) 

Why and why you need to have a good friend ? Why should you choose your friends wisely ? This is the answer. 


The Prophet (salla Allaahu 'alayhy wa sallam) best described the similitude of the good and bad companions when he said:

مَثَلُ الْجَلِيسِ الصَّالِحِ وَالْجَلِيسِ السَّوْءِ كَمَثَلِ صَاحِبِ الْمِسْكِ وَكِيرِ الْحَدَّادِ لَا يَعْدَمُكَ مِنْ صَاحِبِ الْمِسْكِ إِمَّا تَشْتَرِيهِ أَوْ تَجِدُ رِيحَهُ وَكِيرُ الْحَدَّادِ يُحْرِقُ بَدَنَكَ أَوْ ثَوْبَكَ أَوْ تَجِدُ مِنْهُ رِيحًا خَبِيثَةً
"The example of a good companion and a bad companion is that of the bearer of Musk and the worker on the bellows. The bearer of Musk would give you some of the perfume, you either buy it or you smell its fragrance. The worker on the bellows, on the other hand, either burns your body or your clothes, or you smell a bad odor from him."

Reported by al-Bukhaaree in his Saheeh (1959 and 5108) and Muslim in his Saheeh (4762)

This shows you why you need to have a good companion. Look the reasons behind it.


I know that some of you must be asking and wondering why am i being discrimination ? How about those whom are not so well educated ? My answer is , everyone is born to be clever. In your ways ! Work for it. Do not give up. If you are so stupid , then learn . Knowledge is that something that you need to discover until your last breath. I just hate people whom are so damn arrogant with her/his little knowledge and act like they are perfect . Yet , they are actually should be down to earth and realize how big knowledge that they actually have. 

No one in this world is perfect . Be humble. Do not afraid to learn something new. Choose your friend wisely. 

Have a nice day. 

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